Hey midnightmass,
I'm the admin that banned you.
Good to see that you found your way into the forums.
I overreacted with the ban, i know. I should have warned you, and then kicked you. The instant ban was not the right thing to do.
Since you dont seem like a complete moron i'm gonna tell you what you did wrong
First of all: If you play on a server make sure to know the servers rules:
1. You can find some of them ingame by simply writing
!rules in the chat.
2. You can find the full rule set here:
http://newcommunity.eu/forum/viewtopic.php?f=12&t=4
The rule says that you are not allowed to drive an armed vehicle by your own. (using it as a taxi)
If your APC has a gun on it, you need to have a gunner for it. That gunner also has to be in the gunner position.
If you can't request a kit, just wait 1-2 minutes and you should be able to request a new one, but never leave Mainbase without a gunner.
This counts for every vehicle that really needs a crew of minimum 2 men to be fully functional ( = APCs,Tanks, Attack Helicopters, some jets,...)
The only exeption is the AA vehicle. You can drive that one solo, because you can switch from gunner to driver position without getting a black screen.
So pls make sure you read and know the rules before joining a server, especially if you are a new player.
Since the ban was not right i will have you unbanned as fast as possible
BloodyDeed just has to find some time and read this.
Hope to see you and your son on our server again ;)
If you got further questions just hit us up on Teamspeak or ask an admin for help ingame

Adress: 5.9.5.3:9999
Sorry for the inconvenience
Greets,
[NEW] MoulinKiller